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Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Making Money From Home by Donna Partow

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

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Today's Wild Card author is:


and the book:


Making Money from Home

Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. (March 4, 2010)

***Special thanks to Maggie Rowe of Tyndale House Publishers for sending me a review copy.***

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:


Donna Partow is a bestselling Christian author whose books have sold almost a million copies. She has travelled in ministry on six continents and has been featured on hundreds of radio and TV shows, including the Focus on the Family daily broadcast. Donna has operated her own home-based business since being laid off as an investment banker in 1988, routinely generating a six-figure annual sales volume. She has spoken nationwide on the topic of women’s entrepreneurship, including two engagements at the CIA Headquarters in Langley, Virginia. Donna also appeared three years in a row at Senator John McCain’s conference for Arizona women. She attended the University of Pennsylvania’s School of Arts & Sciences, and Wharton Business School. She holds a B.A. in English from Rutgers University. Donna and her family live in Arizona.


Visit the author's website.

Product Details:

List Price: $13.99
Paperback: 272 pages
Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. (March 4, 2010)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1589976088
ISBN-13: 978-1589976085

AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:


Part I

Foundations for a

Home-Based Business


Seven years ago, Kimber King was a busy stay-at-home mom with three boys, ages six, four, and two. She wasn’t looking for a way to make money from home, but when she began using a line of products that dramatically impacted her health; she couldn’t help telling everyone she knew about it. Kimber recalls, “The products were sold through a network marketing company and I actually had a very negative view of the industry. But the results I had with my own health far outweighed all the negative things I felt about the business.” So she quickly signed up enough family and friends to reach the top rank level in her company in the first six weeks. Within ninety days, her monthly earnings matched the full-time income she had previously been paid in the corporate world.

Kimber soon began reaching beyond her immediate circle of contacts through social networking on the Internet. She recalls, “One night I stumbled upon a site on the Internet that described itself as a business networking site. It was free and on the site you had the opportunity to create a profile page for yourself. I dove right in and started connecting with a ton of people. I did some things very naturally that literally launched my business on the Internet and to this day, from this one site I have an organization of six thousand plus members. Then I started branching out onto other sites like message boards and forums. I began cultivating online relationships mostly focusing on other stay-at-home moms.”

Another of Kimber’s success secrets is working with a personal business coach. Although she was earning a great income from home, she was working long hours on the computer and her income had remained the same for nearly two and a half years. “It was a very lucrative income for a stay-at-home mom of three,” she says, “But I began to have great goals for my family and helping others, and I was frankly stuck.”

Within eight weeks of working with the network marketing coach, Kimber was earning a monthly five-figure income and an annual six figure income while reducing her workload to less than twenty hours per week.

Kimber also credits her parents for much of her success. “My dad instilled a spirit of excellence in me. By watching my mother work in her own hair salon, I learned how to treat customers.” Kimber says the key is focusing on others. “It’s always about them and not me! What are their needs? What are their goals? What are their strengths? What are their desires? It’s never been about me and my income goals or rank advancements. If you focus on others, all that will come! One of my mentors says it like this: ‘If you focus on the mission, you get the commission!’ ”

Trust in God is also central to her business approach. As she explains, “When I start a dialogue with someone, my main intention is to discover how I can bless them. It might not be about business at all. It’s all about relationships first and then anything that flows out of it from there I leave up to God! I trust Him completely with my business and that He will also put those in front of me that I am supposed to serve. When people ask what I do to create success in my home business, I tell them two simple things: Pray and take action. I pray for those who are looking for me and for those I can serve. Then I pick up that phone

or connect with someone. “Faith without works is dead!” I have faith in my heavenly Father to provide the way but I also know that I have to step out on that path in faith.”

Kimber has stepped out in faith knowing that God is the provider in her home business and that’s made all the difference. Now seven years later, she earns a six-figure income from home, working part-time, raising her sons, and modeling the same entrepreneurial spirit she saw in her own mother.











































1

Discover the

Advantages of

Working from Home


Let me begin with a brief look at the “why ” of running a home-based business to show you the benefits, because your motivation and belief in the benefits are what keep you going when the going gets tough. But then we’ll quickly shift gears to the more essential and practical how-to suggestions on the following pages.

Like any job, working at home offers both advantages and disadvantages. In the days and months ahead, times of discouragement will come. You may struggle with prioritization and time management. In addition to those burdens, the physical and emotional demands of promoting your business can drain you. You may begin to wonder if all your hard work is worthwhile, and you may even be tempted to give up your plans. In those moments, turn back to this chapter, reexamine the many benefits of working at home, and redouble your efforts to succeed. Remember, anything worth having is worth fighting for.


Your Home Can Be the Center of Your Life

There’s no place like home. I believe that with all my heart. Home can be the center of our lives, not just the place we come to recover from our lives. We can create an environment that fosters creativity and launch not just one narrow home business but a broad range of income-generating activities.

My first home-based business was in marketing communications: writing press releases, brochures, and ad campaigns. It was hard to get people to take me seriously as I tried to compete with the big-city advertising agencies. But I had a talent for writing and was absolutely determined to be a stay-at-home mother. I landed my largest client when I walked into his office wearing a dark pinstriped business suit and pushing my newborn in her stroller. Thisman said he was impressed with my motivation and touched by my priorities.

Over the past twenty years, I’ve launched countless different moneymaking enterprises. Some were dismal failures; others were wildly successful. Most were somewhere in between. As of this writing, I have a dozen income sources. Granted, some provide only $20 here and there. But hey, $20 is $20!

Let me illustrate. While away on a recent missions trip to Mozambique, I received checks from three businesses, totaling $800.The amazing part is that it was all passive income from businesses I had set up on autopilot on the Internet.

How would you like to earn $800 a week? Would you be thrilled with $800 a month? Maybe you plan to become a business tycoon and earn $800 a day. It’s up to you! But whatever your financial goals, I’m here to tell you that anyone can make extra money or have a full-time career from home if he or she is willing to work smart.

For almost twenty years, I’ve been a leader in promoting home-based businesses for women. I have spoken around the country on the topic of women’s entrepreneurship, including two events at the CIA Headquarters in Langley, Virginia, and three conferences hosted by Senator John McCain. I have loudly proclaimed my firm conviction that every man and woman in America should develop some creative way to make extra money from home. And, under appropriate learning conditions, children, too, should develop those skills.


You Can Be Available for Your Children and Others

By working from home, you can avoid the hassles and costs of day care (which are far more substantial than most people realize) and enjoy spending time with your children. Even if you have to hire a babysitter to watch your kids in your home while you work, you’ll be available at a moment’s notice if needed. And you can keep a watchful eye on all that

goes on throughout the day rather than sitting at a desk wondering if your children are okay.

My older daughter, Leah, is now in college. She was homeschooled much of her life, and I was a stay-at-home mom throughout her entire childhood. Although I was often extremely busy working forty hours a week, and even more on my businesses, I was always available when she truly needed me. Won’t it be nice, when your children reach adulthood, to look back and say the same?

Perhaps you have a disabled family member or are caring for elderly parents. Maybe someone in your home has a chronic illness, and you need to be available for doctor and other appointments. Working from home allows you to be there to care for them and gives you the flexibility to take time off during the day, setting your own schedule.


You Can Be a Positive Role Model for Your Children

Some would argue, “I’m too busy raising my children to run a home business.”

I counter, “Don’t you think it just makes sense to include your children in your business so they learn to be entrepreneurial and self sufficient under God’s sufficiency? Don’t you think that training them to run their own businesses might prove to be more significant than running them around to various afterschool activities?”

Fortunately neither of my daughters has the mind-set that some corporation is going to give her a paycheck and job security for the rest of her life. That is an absolute delusion. We need to train our children for the real world, where wise people use the gifts God has given them to mind their own businesses—even if they also have careers. Both of my daughters, who are now nineteen and thirteen, have already had many moneymaking businesses. They’ve done everything from making bookmarks and jewelry to running my book table and processing credit-card orders from my Web site.

When my oldest daughter was fifteen, she organized a teen missions conference that attracted seven hundred people. I had very little involvement. How did she know how to do that? She’s been working at Christian conferences since she was two years old! Leah has also raised thousands of dollars for her various missions trips by making and selling

crystal bracelets

In addition to being able to watch my children grow while I worked from home, they also watched me grow as a businesswoman. By observing me model entrepreneurship, both ofmy daughters learned valuable business skills.


You Can Help Shoulder the Financial Load

Not only can you work from home; you should. With few exceptions, it’s unwise to rely solely on one income source in today’s unstable economy. Now more than ever, I thank God that I have multiple streams of income from my various home-based enterprises. All over the world, mothers not only nurture their families, but they also play a vital role in ensuring the economic survival of their families. I’ve seen this with my own eyes as I’ve traveled worldwide—from the subsistence farmer in Africa bent over her crops with a baby slung on her back to the Asian mother selling items in the local market while children sit nearby, often working as well.

Women throughout history have contributed to the economic survival of their families. We can do the same, and if we exercise wisdom, we can do so in a way that won’t detract from our role as nurturers. In fact, working from home will enhance all of the roles we play and increase our stature in the eyes of our family members. My children not only love me, but they also openly admire me. How can you put a price tag on that?


You Can Enjoy a Sense of Accomplishment

One of the most important things I hope my children have learned from observing me making money from home is that productive work is not a punishment; in fact, it’s inherently rewarding. Many of us have experienced that exhilarating feeling of working hard to complete a project or the joy of beholding something we’ve made with our own hands. A home business will provide abundant opportunities for you to enjoy that exhilaration.

As the old saying goes, “If Mamma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy.” It’s equally true that when Mamma is happily enjoying a sense of accomplishment, everyone around her benefits. I think I’ve modeled a wonderful lifestyle for my daughters. It’s a lifestyle I’m quite certain they’ll choose to replicate.


You Can Be Your Own Boss

Many people fear dependence on a corporation because they have had the rug pulled out from under them or have seen it happen to so many of their colleagues. The days when you could rely on a company to look out for your best interests are long gone. While you’re working diligently for XYZ Corporation, it’s entirely possible they’re filling out your pink slip. Once you establish your own home-based business, you’ll have the pleasure of signing your own paycheck. And when you think you deserve a raise, you can give yourself one.

When you work for an employer, you’re required to work when, where, and how they choose. When you have your own home business, you have more control over when, where, and how you work. Of course, you’re still responsible to your customers, and there will be crunch times when you don’t have a choice about how many hours you put in. But there is usually much more time flexibility when you are your own boss.

Once in a while when I’m struggling with some aspect of my home business, one of my relatives will joke, “Donna, you should go back to banking.” But we all know I’m completely unemployable! I’ve been my own boss for too long, and I don’t think I could ever go back to having someone else tell me what to do with my time.


You Can Continue Your Career

Many women spend years training for a career before their children arrive on the scene. Teachers, nurses, doctors, lawyers, and many other professionals can quite easily transfer their hard-earned skills to a home-based business. Knowing that your career isn’t on hold will give you satisfaction, even though the majority of your time may be spent with family. This is especially important if you want to resume your before children career after the children have grown.

The amazing thing about the Internet is how easy it now is for a woman to stay current and relevant in her field while mothering and earning money from home. These types of opportunities were hard to come by when I wrote my first home-based business book. Now they abound. Let’s hear it for technology!


There Are Opportunities for Tremendous Success

When you work nine to five for someone else’s company, to a large extent your boss controls how well you do. But when you work for yourself, only your ability and determination set the limits, assuming you start with a great product or service people want. Maybe there’s something you’ve always dreamed of doing. Now is your chance to do it! You

may aspire only to make a little extra money, but there’s always the chance that your “silly idea” will catch on, and you’ll find yourself transformed into a very successful entrepreneur. Someone has to think up those great ideas. Why not you?

I know a number of Christian women who earn six-figure incomes thanks to their home businesses. Yes, you read that right. Six figures! I even know women who’ve earned more than a million dollars, and one woman who has earned several million. With few exceptions, these women did not set out to achieve such tremendous success. They were just doing what they loved, and the success followed. Put another way, they were walking in obedience, and God’s blessings chased them down the street and overtook them. It could happen to you!


The Top Ten Ways to Avoid Scams

1. Surf with caution. Understand that the mainstreaming of the Internet has created both good news and bad news for aspiring home-based business entrepreneurs. Good news: Opportunities abound. Bad news: Scams abound.

2. Beware advertisements. No legitimate company on the planet will advertise to hire an employee to work from home. Not gonna happen. Never. No, not ever. Why? Very simple: If a company had a legitimate interest in hiring employees to work from home, there would be an instantaneous pileup of current employees and their circles of influence. The very fact that a company is advertising work from home is your first clue that it’s a scam.

3. Never buy a list or directory of companies that supposedly hire people to work from home. These are phony! Once and for all: The answer to the question of who will hire you, keep you secure, pay you lots of money, and grant you the freedom to set your own hours from home is no one. You don’t need a list or directory of no one.

4. Choose freedom or security. I constantly hear from people who want the freedom of working from home as well as the perceived security of a job. Freedom and security are always a trade. Will you give up some of your freedom for security? Or will you give up some of your security in return for freedom? You’ll never have both in full measure. Accept reality: You cannot ha e your cake and eat it too.

5. Understand the role of oDesk and similar outsourcing Web sites. In the introduction, I mentioned the emergence of Web sites like oDesk and, in one sense, this is an example of companies looking for people to work from home. And yes, many Americans are trying to capitalize on this new trend. Some are e en succeeding. Howe er, for the most part, companies who post on oDesk aren’t “hiring”; they’re simply outsourcing on a project-by-project basis for the express purpose of not hiring employees. So although some opportunities exist, I belie e sites like oDesk are actually bad news for any North American woman who wants to work from home and is hoping she might find someone to hire her. If you thought the competition was fierce when millions of Americans were looking to work from home, now millions more people around the globe are in the mix. You’ll ha e to compete with people who are willing to work for a few dollars an hour, and it’s nearly impossible to build a successful North American business like that. Now, if you’re willing to move overseas, that’s a whole new ball game, and oDesk can become your very best friend. That’s well beyond the scope of this book, but if it’s something you’re interested in pursuing, read The 4-Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss.

6. Know the code. As soon as you hear phrases like “more work than I can handle” or “looking to train someone” or “just want to help others duplicate my success,” run for the door. Or click the mouse. It’s a scam. If these people really had more work than they could handle, their relatives and friends would be beating down the door to get in on it. But since it’s a scam and they’ e already driven away all their friends and relatives, they’re on the Internet trying to scam you. Don’t be fooled. . Beware whirlwind friendships. There are some unethical people whose entire marketing strategy consists of befriending people just to recruit them for this, that, or the other “business opportunity.” Over the years a number of people have swept into my life with a friendship that felt more like a whirlwind romance. In every instance it turned out they were in a network marketing business. As soon as they discovered I wasn’t interested, the whirlwind friendship ended, and they moved on to the next person.

8. Check it out. Don’t rely on information provided by the person trying to sell you. Turn to Google, the Better Business Bureau, and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to verify the claims and promises.

9. Take your time. Don’t let anyone pressure you into making a decision on the spot. If it’s a great opportunity today, it will be a great opportunity a week from today.

10 . Big dollars should raise a big red flag. It shouldn’t cost more than $500 to $1,000 to launch a business from home.


Dynamic Uno here: When I first saw Making Money From Home advertised, I thought it would be a fabulous book to read so that I could help my Mom get her business off of the ground.  Little did I know that the questions for self-reflection at the end of each chapter and the practical tips for starting a business (or two, or three...) would get my own wheels turning for ways to make money for myself.  After all, who couldn't use a few more dollars to help with those pesky bills?

Donna's experience as an entrepreneuer is laid out in easy to understand steps for anyone who has toyed with the idea of starting his/her own business.  She has a clear writing style and uses her personal experiences to help illustrate the concepts she is trying to teach.  The exercises she gives the reader help personalize your business goals and direction.  Donna even includes information on how to market your business and plug in to the personal networking sites that we tend to use frequently.

I recommend this book to anyone who is toying with the idea of starting a business--even if it's something as simple as becoming an affiliate of another company.  I know that I'm going to keep my copy of Making Money From Home and purchase several others for the people in my life (my Mom and friends) who want to become their own boss.  Donna also includes links to her website, in which you can gain even more insight into yourself and your business, as well as look at other resources available for business owners.

Let me know what you think!  Happy Reading!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

There's More to Life Than Making a Living by Jack C. McDowell with Phil Needham

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


Today's Wild Card author is:

Jack C. McDowell
with Phil Needham


and the book:


There's More to Life than Making a Living

FaithWords (November 4, 2009)

***Special thanks to Valerie M. Russo of the Hachette Book Group for sending me a review copy.***


ABOUT THE AUTHOR:



Jack C. McDowell was born in Hollywood, California, during the depth of the great depression. He served The Salvation Army for 38 years, devoting his life to the organization's financial needs and dedicated officers. In 2005, Jack endowed and sponsored the opening of The Salvation Army's School for Leadership Development, whose purpose is to build spiritually motivated leaders and equip them with the resources and skills to complete their mission with The Salvation Army.

Product Details:

List Price: $16.99
Hardcover: 208 pages
Publisher: FaithWords (November 4, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0446555940
ISBN-13: 978-044655594

AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:






Dynamic Uno here: This is not a book that I signed up to review, but the title and the sample chapter intrigued me so I thought I would post it for you. Let me know what you think of it. Happy Reading!

Friday, January 9, 2009

WILD Card: God Is My Coach by Larry Julian

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!


Today's Wild Card author is:


and the book:


God Is My Coach

Center Street (January 5, 2009)


ABOUT THE AUTHOR:


LARRY JULIAN is a successful consultant and speaker and the author of the nationally acclaimed business book God Is My CEO: Following God's Principles in a Bottom-Line World. As a business coach, Larry's mission is to help people integrate their work and faith to be the successes God intended. He has trained thousands of business leaders, and his clients have included 3M, AT&T, General Mills, Honeywell, the Mayo Clinic, Qwest, and hundreds of other large and small organizations. He lives in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

Visit the author's website.

Product Details:

List Price: $19.99
Hardcover: 240 pages
Publisher: Center Street (January 5, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1599950480
ISBN-13: 978-1599950488
AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:


Purpose


The Gift of Your Unique Calling


Issue:


How Can I Integrate My Career with My Calling?


I quietly watched as my two-year-old son worked on a wood puzzle. His body and jaw tensed as he tried to fit a piece the shape of a duck into a hole the shape of a sheep. The harder he tried, the more frustrated he became. Succumbing to frustration (as two-year-olds tend to do), he hurled the puzzle into the air and fell into a heap on the floor.


As adults, how often is this scenario played out in our careers? The Conference Board, a leading market information company, reported in 2005 that only 50 percent of workers are satisfied with their jobs and a mere 14 percent identified themselves as very satisfied. In addition, the report states that two out of three employees don’t identify with or feel motivated to drive toward their employer’s business goals and objectives.


Could our dissatisfaction stem at least in part from working in jobs whose skill requirements don’t match our unique gifts? Are we trying to force our God-given and God-inspired uniqueness to conform to a purpose He never intended for us to have? In the end, are we ducks trying to be sheep?

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Solution: Fulfill Your Unique Call with Your Unique Giftedness


For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works,

which God prepared in advance for us to do. —Ephesians 2:10


In the Halftime Report, Ivey Harrington Beckman tells the story of a middle-aged woman’s journey to making her unique calling her life’s work:


The first time Rosalind Cook sank her hands into a mound of clay at the age of 26, her soul said, “Ah ha!” “Shaping that clay into a meaningful form was like finding a piece of myself that had been missing for a long, long time,” she explains. “I realized I was trying to be who other people thought I should be, and I wasn’t looking at how God created me. I reflected on what really gave me joy in life—and that was sculpting. But I still felt a bit guilty about loving it so much, until a friend watched as I pulled out my clay one evening. I cried as I said: ‘I don’t understand how I can have so much joy in doing this! Where’s the significance? This isn’t saving souls. This isn’t doing anything for anyone. It just feeds me and brings me joy.’

“And he replied, ‘Rosalind, you are made in God’s image. He’s your Creator and when you use the gifts of His image that gives Him pleasure.’”


When we discover our God-given design and calling and use those gifts in service to Him, we experience genuine joy and satisfaction. Giftedness is one of the clues God gives you toward discovering your calling. Exploring your giftedness helps provide clarity to your unique calling—even in the midst of your uncertainty.

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Discover the Gift of Your Unique Calling


In response to the growing number of workers looking for meaning, satisfaction, and motivation, self-help books continue to flood the market. We’ve become a consumer-driven society looking to fulfill our needs and purpose in life. We even see God as a means to serve us. Many a prayer has started with the words Dear God, please help me get this job. . . . It’s about our satisfaction, our career, and our calling.


There’s an inherent flaw in the consumer-driven approach. God created us to be catalysts, not consumers. We’ve been uniquely designed by God to serve His purpose, not ours. It’s in discovering our true calling and then using our gifts in service to God that we experience the genuine joy and satisfaction we were seeking all along. It may be helpful to examine how our calling became consumer driven in the first place. Part of the blame rests in how a business views its employees. When it comes to finding the right person for the job, the business world often has it completely backwards. In my first book, God Is My CEO, I interviewed Horst Schulze, then CEO of Ritz-Carlton Hotels. Among his thought-provoking insights was this gem: “Our industry is notorious for getting bodies to fulfill a function—to do things. I think this is irresponsible and, in a sense, immoral.


People should not just fulfill a function. They have the right to be a part of something.” Rather than finding the right person with the right gifts for the right job, many organizations fall into the trap of finding bodies to fill positions. Most of the responsibility, however, rests on us. Perhaps we seek a specific career for the wrong reasons, such as fulfilling a parent’s wish, earning a target salary, meeting an organization’s expectations, or trying to achieve a societal ideal. Perhaps we simply have no idea how we’re uniquely gifted. Or maybe we’ve focused all our energy into a career but haven’t taken time to discover our calling. In the end, we pursue everything but our true calling. Our jobs provide a paycheck but no sense of purpose; we make money but don’t make a difference. Dissatisfaction descends upon us. We fall into a continual cycle of trying to fit into someone else’s requirements rather than pursue our God-given call.


Rosalind Cook, the clay sculptor, was a teacher of the blind before becoming a stay-at-home mother of three, serving on school boards and committees. Her life was busy, and for years, sculpting terra-cotta clay was simply a hobby. And then came the day her friend explained that she brought God pleasure by using the gifts God had given her:


“From that day on I gave myself permission to sculpt. And I finally connected with its true significance in my life. I was 41. I cast my first bronze at 42 and was able to sell it almost immediately.” In the Halftime Report, an online publication of Halftime (an organization that teaches how those in the “halftime” of their lives can look back on what they’ve accomplished, understand who they are, and then redirect their time and talent for an even more purposeful second half ), Ivey Beckman tells us:


Today, Rosalind’s prized bronze sculptures, which range from happy, playful children to full-size images of Jesus, grace galleries throughout the world. She has donated many pieces to charities, raising far more money than any committee work she ever did. . . .


“My art is a celebration of life and its Creator,” says Cook. “It gives me the opportunity to motivate people to give themselves permission to dream. If you delight in your God-given passion, He will give you the desires of your heart—because He put them there! Don’t ignore what God is tugging at your heart to do; that’s like saying what He has created for you isn’t important. Pursue what gives you joy, and you will be amazed by the significance of what God will do through you.”


Your Giftedness versus Your Calling


I recently had a conversation with an individual who went into great detail about his calling. The conversation went something like:


“God called me to go to . . . and then He asked me to . . . and then He asked me to . . .”


While I appreciated his passion (not to mention his energy), it sounded like God had given him a twenty-item to-do list.


When Jesus turned to His disciples and said “Follow me,” He provided a considerable amount of latitude for the disciples to translate that into a calling. Each disciple used his unique life experiences, gifts, and passion to respond to Jesus’ call. My favorite definition of “calling” comes from Os Guinness, author of The Call. He describes it this way: “First and foremost we are called to Someone (God), not to something (such as motherhood, politics, or teaching) or somewhere (such as the inner city or Outer Mongolia).”


In Dr. Guinness’s definition, your calling encompasses your whole life rather than just a place or a profession. It’s not doing things for God and going places for Him, but living your life through the unique set of circumstances, experiences, and giftedness He’s given you. Your unique giftedness, on the other hand, is simply how God designed you. It’s the most natural way you were built to respond to life’s challenges and opportunities. In essence, your unique giftedness gives you an important clue toward God’s call on your life and your motivation and ability to respond to it.


The Uniqueness of Your Response


When you use your gifts in response to God’s call, your work becomes a joyful form of worship. Your work is an expression of your giftedness; it’s your way of working out the gifts God worked into you.


He uniquely created you to serve a purpose and then gave you a unique set of gifts to fulfill that purpose. Your calling and purpose, then, is different from your brother’s calling, your mother’s purpose, and your best friend’s calling.


The call is in God’s hands. The response is in your hands. God didn’t create you to be a puppet that would do His will, nor did He dole you out an assignment. Instead, He gives you great latitude to respond to your unique call. In essence, God’s calling is His purpose for your life, and your response (the discovery and utilization of your unique gifts) is part of your purpose for your life. When His purpose aligns with your purpose, your work becomes a joyful and significant journey.


Rosalind Cook pulled away from her community work and reflected on what really gave her joy in life: her sculpting. When word of her talent spread, the requests for commissioned work became overwhelming.


“I asked the Lord for the strength to say no to some requests because I wanted everything I did to have real significance—value other than a pretty piece of bronze to sell in a gallery.” Ivey Beckman describes Rosalind’s epiphany: Soon afterward Rosalind did a small head study of a woman with a turban draped over one shoulder. The sculpture stopped at the clavicle.


“I wanted to create a woman who depicted beauty not because of her hair, not because of her body, but because she had this inner strength and dignity,” explains Rosalind. Weeks later a friend saw the small piece in Rosalind’s studio and asked if she would donate it as a fundraiser for Tulsa Project Woman, an organization that helps women who have no health insurance pay for breast cancer treatments. “I finished the piece and took it to my foundry to have my mold done and asked for Suzy, who always does them for me. But Suzy wasn’t there,” Rosalind recalls. “I learned she had breast cancer and was taking chemo treatments. In tears, I told her coworkers what the sculpture was for and was astounded to learn that Project Tulsa Woman had paid for Suzy’s treatment.”


Later Rosalind asked Suzy to speak at the event in which the small bronze sculpture would be unveiled. Although shy, Suzy bravely told a crowded room how Tulsa Project Woman took her death sentence and gave her the gift of hope. “Everyone there was in tears as Suzy, who had lost her hair and her breast, stood beside the sculpture of a woman who depicted beauty—not because of her hair, not because of her body, but because she had inner strength and dignity,” recalls Rosalind. “Suzy was the living embodiment of that sculpture, and the money to help more women poured in. God honored my prayer for significance by taking the least significant thing I had done and making it the most significant. His hands guided mine to shape that small study because He knew exactly what His purpose was.”


Understanding Your Giftedness: The Motivated Abilities Pattern (MAP®)


In January 2003, Rob Stevenson, managing director of People Management International, a firm that specializes in executive searches, executive coaching, and organizational effectiveness, introduced me to a whole new way of becoming what God designed me to be: the Motivated Abilities Pattern® (MAP®) developed through the SIMA® (System for Identifying Motivated Abilities®) discovery process. Arthur Miller, the founder of People Management, distilled his years of research into this insightful discovery: “The surest way I have found to unlock the essence of a person is to look at what he likes to do and does well.”6 The simplicity is beautiful. Your giftedness is the intersection of what you naturally do well with what you love doing. The MAP® is the system People Management developed to identify and describe a person’s unique giftedness. They found that all patterns of giftedness have five dimensions:


1. Abilities The abilities you love to use. These are the natural strengths and competencies you employ to accomplish the results you want (i.e., study, experiment, analyze, persuade, strategize, teach, etc.).

2. Subject Matter The things you love to work with; the objects or subject areas to which you’re naturally drawn and in which you achieve your most productive and fulfilling achievements (i.e., numbers, concepts, people, tools, machines, color, etc.).

3. Circumstances The ideal environment; situations or settings that stimulate you to achieve. These are the ideal conditions in which you function (i.e., structured, visible, competitive circumstances, etc.) and the factors that “trigger” your motivation (i.e., needs, problems, potential for measurable results, etc.).

4. Operating Relationships The way you interact with others in order to accomplish meaningful results (i.e., team member, individualist, spark plug, facilitator, coordinator, etc.).

5. Payoff The outcome or goal you love to work toward in order to feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction (i.e., excel, overcome, meet requirements, gain response, acquire goods and status, pioneer, etc.).


The MAP® process encompasses your whole life, not just one segment of your life. Your giftedness is not just about finding your strengths but about finding your passion, your circumstances, your relationships, and the meaning and satisfaction you seek. When we integrate all five areas of our giftedness into a whole, we get a better sense of how God designed us to achieve our calling.


In the “God Is My Coach Life Plan,” we’ll go through an abbreviated MAP® process to help you discover your unique giftedness. You’ll discover gifts you never realized you had.


Mentor on a Mission


Robert J. Stevenson, managing director of People Management International, is a nationally known management consultant in senior management selection, organizational design and development, executive coaching, succession planning, and workplace change and innovation. Rob was excited to be able to give some practical ideas about this topic—our unique giftedness, purpose, and calling—in order to bring it within our grasp.


Q: What is the greatest misperception about gifts?

A: Most people suffer under the delusion that the gifted and talented make up less than 5 percent of the population. That’s wrong. One hundred percent of us are gifted and talented.

Q: What frustration do you experience working with clients?

A: We see many people who are gifted but disengaged because they’re doing the wrong job for the wrong reason. Their gifts have been squelched and discouraged by well-meaning but misdirected helpers, counselors, teachers, and friends.

Q: What is the most important point you would like to make about giftedness?

A: God has placed in you a defined and refined system of giftedness that has functioned seamlessly since you were born. You are uniquely gifted; therefore, no standardized test can describe your uniqueness. The answer lies within you. The repeating pattern of your giftedness lies within the stories that reveal what you enjoy doing and do well, your “sweet spot.”

Q: How can I communicate my unique giftedness in a job interview?

A: First, you need to explore and know your “sweet spot”—that special area where your passion and purpose shine. You can’t sell a product until you understand its unique benefits to the customer. In the same way, you can’t sell yourself until you know what you enjoy doing and do well. There’s no unemployment for a person who knows his or her gifts well enough to communicate and leverage them. Second, your value to an employer or organization is based on three areas: 1) your professional experience, 2) your education or training, and, finally, and most importantly, 3) your unique giftedness. You need to integrate all three areas to tell your story effectively.


Counsel for Consideration


When you’re dwelling in a time period that’s gray and filled with chaos, it’s easy to grow impatient with your circumstances. Like my son, Scott, with his puzzle, we try to force the shape of a duck into an opening meant for a sheep. Don’t force your God-given and God inspired uniqueness to conform to a purpose He never intended for you to have. Instead of seeking external clarity and direction, focus your efforts on the internal to find your genuine calling.


There are resources and organizations that can help you find your strengths, personality type, and gifts. I chose to share People Management’s process for three reasons:


1. The process analyzes stories from your entire life, not just one time period. Imbedded within your life story is a treasure chest of clues to your calling. Your giftedness isn’t just about finding your strengths; it’s also about your passion, your best circumstances, your relationships, and the meaning and satisfaction you seek. Allow the process to help you discover how these five dimensions bring out the best in you so you can bring out the best in those around you.


2. God has provided clues to your giftedness since you were born. Taking time to identify your most satisfying moments from your past and then fleshing out these stories is an invaluable tool. The process itself is an important exercise in discovering how God uniquely designed you.


3. Putting the pieces of your giftedness together is like putting together a jigsaw puzzle. It can be a frustrating, pressure-filled task of trying to force the duck piece into the sheep-shaped hole or, if you’re patient, it can be a fascinating journey from gray to clarity.


Going through this process won’t, on its own, provide you with clarity of purpose and direction. Further, it would be misleading to tell you that simply doing what you love will help you discover your career and calling. There are times, for example, when circumstances dictate that you must provide for your family, even though you may not love what you’re doing. Discovering your giftedness is one of the many clues God provides. Ultimately, we must trust that God has us in the gray for a reason. Seeking God’s call and discovering how to use your gifts in service to God and others is a noble pursuit. Trust in the process and trust in God. He will provide the clarity and calling you seek in His perfect timing.


Copyright © 2009 by Laurence S. Julian


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